About
A tool for the gap between
who you are and who they see.
Most of us know ourselves from the inside. We know our intentions, our fears, the internal monologue that nobody hears. But the people around us only see what comes through — and sometimes that's not the same thing at all.
HowWeSeeMe started from a simple observation: the conversations people most need to have — about how they come across, what they're projecting, what they're missing in themselves — rarely happen. Not because people don't care, but because they're hard to start.
This tool creates the conditions for that conversation. Two people each write honestly about the same person. The AI finds the gap — where the pictures diverge, what one sees that the other doesn't, and what that gap might mean. Then you read it together.
It's not a personality test. There's no score, no type, no label. What you get is a private analysis built from your actual words and theirs — specific to the two of you, and the gap between you.
“Not a test. Not a diagnosis. A private mirror between two people.”
We built this to be intimate and private. Your mirror is only visible to you and the person you invite. We don't use your descriptions for training, we don't sell your data, and we don't show you ads. The product works because what you write is honest — so we've designed it to stay that way.
HowWeSeeMe is made by a small team. Questions, feedback, or thoughts — reach us at hi@howweseeme.com.