How it works
Two descriptions.
One private mirror.
HowWeSeeMe creates a private analysis of the gap between how you see yourself and how someone close to you sees you. No quiz. No score. Just two honest descriptions and what they reveal together.
You write about yourself
Sign in and describe who you are — your values, how you show up in relationships, what drives you, your patterns and blind spots as you understand them. Be specific. The more honest you are, the more useful the mirror will be.
Your description stays hidden until after the other person submits theirs.
You invite someone who knows you
You get a private link. Send it to a partner, a close friend, a sibling, a colleague — someone who has actually seen how you show up. They don't need an account.
You can also hand them the device right there, if you're together.
They write about you
The person you invited describes how they experience you — your values, your patterns, what they admire, what confuses them. They don't see what you wrote until after they submit.
Their view is completely independent. That's what makes it useful.
You unlock the mirror
Once they've submitted, you return to your mirror and run the analysis. The AI finds where your self-view and their view overlap, diverge, and reveal something neither of you may have named out loud.
Both descriptions are shown afterward, so you can read them together.
What makes this different
This isn't a personality quiz. There's no type, score, or label. The output is specific to the two of you — built from your actual words and theirs, and what the AI finds in the gap between them.
Your self-description is hidden
The other person writes without seeing what you wrote. That's what makes their view independent.
No account needed for them
The person you invite just clicks the link. No sign-up required on their end.
Only you can unlock the analysis
You return to your mirror and run it when you're ready. It doesn't happen automatically.
Private by design
Your mirror is visible only to the people you've invited. We don't share or sell your data.
Have questions? Read the FAQ